Would you marry yourself?
As a women, I have this lavish idea of how I’d like to be proposed to. How romantically, passionate the love would be. Could you imagine how amazing the proposal to YOUrself could be? Have you, let alone, stopped everything and asked yourself if you would honestly marry YOU? YES YOU! That multi-faceted being right there within you. If we took the time to pause and find out about ourselves we would know exactly how we wanted to be loved. We would know exactly how we would want to be proposed to, the time, the place, the season. Imagine having all of that information and thus, forth communicating and giving yourself everything you need.
Who knows you best but yourself?
Who can best give you all the love YOU need, other then yourself?
My friend reminded me the other day “We all need to WAKE UP to the reality that we came here on a SOULO journey”. With that in mind, lets take the time to get to know ourselves from the inside out. The deepest parts of ourselves, that have yet to be exposed and yet to be created. Lets make the space to sit, feel and find the truth that lives within us. Not the truth that your parents or teachers imprinted upon you, but the truth that is felt within your body.
As soon as we set sail on that journey, may FAITH ensure that whatever we discover is all here to be loved. Even the darkest, scariest places, that are waiting to be filled with acceptance and compassion. Even the most beloved qualities that perhaps haven’t begin to fully bloom because they need tending to.
“If you can be friends with yourself then you will never be alone”. – Maxwell Marltz
The funny thing is I believe as soon as we love ourselves so fully we can attract ANYTHING OR ANYONE we want. So don’t you worry about being “alone” my dear. Self Marriage also helps eliminate all of the expectations upon the other, knowing YOU got yourself. Trusting yourself so fully, knowing you will surround yourself with nothing but THE BEST.
Now, more then ever is the time to ask, “WOULD YOU MARRY YOURSELF?”.
Can you find the courage to look yourself in the mirror and be able to say “I DO”.
I do Love you on the days that you have bed hair, stinky breath, and feeling sick.
I do Love you on the days that you feel like utter shit.
I do Love you in whatever process you are going through.
I do Love your imperfections.
I do Love you when its hard to Love you.
I do Love you when it feels as though no one else does.
I do Love you when your triggered and want to scream FUCK YOU.
Of course I love you through all of your Glory, and Grace.
I love you when your in your fullest expression and embodying your essence.
Mostly I just love the shit out of you. Every part, and in every way.
I vow to love you like no one ever will. I vow to love the parts I haven’t met. I vow to love all your past wounds. I vow to LOVE IT ALL. I vow to keep this love going even when I find another to Love.
We don’t necessarily need the most extravagant self marriage ceremony, or do we? We just need to be willing to humbly look at ourselves, have the faith and TRUST our commitment to ourselves. To commit to learning and exploring within. To commit to being our own best friend. Self Marriage is just the starting point on our own journey. Every day, every moment is a test to show up for ourselves. To curiously finding out the different parts of ourselves, so that we can fully share who we are on this planet. To standing up for ourselves and what we believe in. If your reading this, then I know you have what it takes. I believe in you.I believe in your greatness. I believe in ALL the beauty that lies within.
LOVE YOU TO INFINITY!